Marriage. Single. Struggle.

In my daily life I am literally surronded by married people. Young and aged. I am single, and I have been single for 3 years now. Tied down only by guilt and worthlessness. A few weeks ago I was given advice; and it stuck with me. "Be me!" It stuck with me because I thought I was already doing so well at that.. This insight gave me such a new purpose that its almost as if I have completely started my life over again. Its not the single-ness that I let get to me, its the fact that I have no clue who this me person they want me to be is. So its a brand new adventure all in itself. This adventure can be a little overwhelming at times. But the idea of searching for myself is a whole lot less pressure than attempting to find a man to spend the rest of my life with. The lonliness can only be encouraging from here on out, soley based on the fact that God uses that to bring us closer to Him. Its a urning for Him because He is the ONLY one to fullfill those needs. Always.